3 posts tagged “life”
I haven't updated this thing in a long time, but I'm happy to report it's because I've been so busy and not because I had a lack of things to write about. I really meant to write a blog/journal entry like this after spring quarter and give everyone an update after I finished my first year at UCLA, but I haven't had much time to just sit in front of a computer since then so now you get my input on my first year AND summer session at UCLA.
This year has been the most exciting one in my life, so far. I had a roommate other than my older sister for the first time, and even sharing a room with my sister hasn't happened since I was 8 or 9, so that was new I guess. I guess you could say I moved out of the house, technically, but now that it's summer I don't have my own place anymore so I don't think it counts. I guess it's your call, as my reader, to make.
As far as academics, I learned more in this year than I've learned in any other year and that's probably because I'm finally out of community college. I'm really happy I went to UCLA and it was really reassuring to find out I'm able to keep up with the pace of a four-year, especially UCLA. At the beginning of spring quarter I got an internship at the Daily Bruin as a copy editor. I worked there for five or six weeks, I can't really remember, but in any case I haven't been there for long but I would say that this is the first time I'm learning something that is actually valuable in the job market. Sorry John Wooden Center, but I don't think the opportunity you gave me to fold towels will jump out on my resume. So anyway, I'm very happy I got that internship and I hope to continue copy editing when I get back from NY. I'm hoping I can get a job that's somewhere in the same vein as editing after I graduate, because I'd really rather not continue doing anything Sociology-related.
I met Shaun this year, and we've been officially together since Valentine's Day :-) I don't want to gush excessively, but he is a very significant part of my life and I am madly in love with him. If there are still people out there unfamiliar with our story, I'll summarize it. We both worked at the John Wooden Center, so we met when I got hired fall quarter. He made me laugh and he has fantastic cheekbones (I think I mentioned them in my last post), so I was interested. He started telling me stories about a former roommate of his who believes that he is a dragon and claims to date supermodels. Anyway, Shaun had a lot of stories about this kid, so we started hanging out more during and outside of work. He would usually come into the gym to work out while I was on shift and wait until I was off to walk me home. It was very sweet and did not go unnoticed by our coworkers, who apparently "saw it coming from a mile away." On February 14 we went on our first date and decided to make it official then, because I believe having that as our anniversary gives us cute points. And we crave cute points. He came out to visit me here in New York for my birthday because he's just sweet like that, and the picture that I've included is from that trip. And the dress that I'm wearing (not like you can see it that well) is one of the things he gave me for my birthday :-)
Now, I'm sitting in a crappy dorm room in New York on a UCLA Travel Study program for Sociology. The program ends this Thursday and I fly home on Saturday. It's been a fun trip, but I will be sooo happy to come back. Mostly I'm excited to come back because I miss Shaun, but also I hate the filthy room I live in, I don't like being able to eat for free only between the hours of 7:30am and 8pm Monday through Friday, I'm ready to have a break from school, and also, I'm broke. That probably made it sound a lot worse than it actually is, because I have had good times here as well. I love that I'm in a city where I can walk around and that there's an actual night life here. I like the wide variety of restaurants they have, even though I can't afford a lot of them. I also really like that I knocked out 14 units in four weeks and it was incredibly easy. It has been worth it, but it'll be nice to be back home.
After this program, I'll be finished with my degree after two more quarters. I'm not anxious about being released into the "real world" at the moment, but maybe it'll hit later. I guess it'll suck to not having summer, spring, or winter breaks but it'll also be really nice to not have stacks and stacks of reading to do and pointless papers to write. I'll need to get a job pretty soon because my student loan payments will be due and I'll have to support my penniless boyfriend who will (possibly) be in med school.
I hope that if you actually read this entire thing you enjoyed it, have a good rest of the summer everybody!
Errggghh inner conflict.
So. I've just come home from a weekend in Rome... which was all right because a few factors made it less than perfect. I liked Florence better, but I liked Rome better than Venice. Anyway, that is the end of all my travels out of England. And I'm really really sad. After my four weekend straight travelling I just wanted to be in my room, so I got my weekend off then had an AMAZING week in Italy and Greece followed by this weekend in Rome and I feel like I could go for another month or two. I guess this is the "travelling bug." And I've either caught it or been bitten by it, depending on what you mean by a bug... either way I'm infected. I need to go to Australia. And Germany. And Spain.
BUT
I am so so very homesick. I want to be eating at In-n-Out after church with the regular group. I want to see my dog. I want to hang out with all the cravers. I want to be in Shannon's living room. I want to be around what's familiar to me.
Here is what I would love:
1. Come home for Christmas
a.Stay until March
2. Continue European travels
a.End around June
3. Hang around Ventura for a month
4. Take a cross-country road trip
a. Lasting until September
5. I don't know, I'm free from September to December. Maybe here is when I work like crazy to pay off the crazy debt.
6. Spend New Year's Eve in Australia, then travel around Australia for a month or two.
7. Come home in February, then start living a normal steady life involving school and working a part time job.
Wouldn't that be nice?
But that's not going to happen, so I think God has a different plan for me, so I'm going to have to go with that one instead. I just hope it involves Australia.
I love life. I have a lot of reasons.
- Tomorrow is my last day of work
- However, today was the last day I would see many of the people there. One of the guys gave me a card and a gift of $25!
- I got my new laptop today
- I got the ticket money from Kelli today
- I watched "About A Boy" tonight
- Last night I watched "Love Actually"
- By this time in three weeks I'll be an official resident of London
- Velvet Elvis is a great book
That's all I can think of right now. I've just been in a state of
warm fuzzies ever since watching "Love Actually" last night, but plenty
of great things have happened since then. I think it's just Hugh
Grant that gives me the warm fuzzies.
Anyway, it's close to bedtime. Goodnight!
